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I am not suggesting to break or not break contact but here are some possible usefull advice you may wish to consider.Quote
(1) I have reason to believe that my ex has driven whilst under the influence of alcohol, he has turned up at my house (in his car) stinking of it. I have no way of proving this.
*If you are deadly sure of this.* You do not allow the NRP to drive away with your child in the car while under the influence. I believe it is your duty to telephone the police to come around and breathalise the NRP (note the incident number). Ask the NRP to politely wait outside while you gently close the door and assure him that he will be able to have the child for contact after the police have turned up to assuage your DUI concerns.Quote
(2) I have a genuine fear of abduction. During the time of the court proceedings last year I received a text message from my ex with words to the effect of'I'm going to get my son from school right now, and there's nothing you can do about it.
Inform the school of this threat and stipulate that you are the only person to be able to pick your child up from school, noone else. But I notice you have already done this good.Unless the NRP has relatives abroad he wishes to live with, abduction is unlikely.Quote
(3) Sorry this is so lengthy, .... but why was my son told never to tell me about it?
For obvious reasons and he was 4 at the time. *Just in case* these incidents have lead you to start questioning the child. Please stop IMHO a young child shouldnt be questioned. As the child gets older it will be harder for someone to tell him to keep his mouth shut anyway.Quote
In addition to all of this, when my son was three years old, he fell into a canal whilst in the care of his paternal grandparents. They own a small boat and I'd agreed that they could take my son for a day out to see it.
You continue to agree to boat trips with the grandparents providing that a lifejacket being worn at all times or contact will not be given at all anywhere near the boat.It is most reasonable for you to absolutley insist that it is imperative a lifejacket being worn on the boat at all times or contact will not be given at all anywhere near the boat.Take your child to swimming lessons too. |
| posted by: chorion 2007-08-24 16:37 Tag : my child all my child view:206 |
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