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| This is a very difficult problem to deal with, especially as there are so many things that your daughter suddenly seems afraid of. I would seek advice from a health visitor. Phobias in young children are usually caused by a major event such as a house move or new school, or a traumatic event such as an accident or burglary.How often has your daughter had these fears? Did they appear all at once? How does she feel about starting pre-school? Think back: Is there anything that could possibly have triggered these fears? It doesn't have to seem like much to you, 2yr olds see the world much differently. Until you and your health visitor can find a solution, or your daughter feels less threatened by these things, the only thing you can do is help her to see that you are there to protect her. You already know what things scare her right now, so do your best to avoid these. I understand this isn't easy and can't be done for ever, but it will help her to feel safer. Examples: (fear of tails) Take away the cuddly toys that she's afraid of, bag them up and put them away. If you are in the street and you can see that there's a dog nearby stop the pushchair and move to where she can see you, talk to her to show her you're there and she's safe. (don't mention the dog unless she does, talk about anything else, or just tell her what a good girl she is).(Talking to friends) You can't and shouldn't avoid your friends, Allow her to play by herself and if she chooses to approach your friend that's great if she doesn't, just show that that's fine and leave her be. Try not to make her talk to them in any way, if she wants to she will.(Bows) Just try to avoid them wherever possible.(Grass) Carry her if you really have to take her on grass. Nothing is great long-term but could her your daughter feel safe for the time being until you can get professional help for her if needed. As for the stutter this needs a lot of time a patience. Even if your son finishes her sentences for her, ask HER what SHE wants, and wait as long as it takes for her to answer. If your son is old enough to understand explain to him how important it is that she talks for herself.Sarah |
| posted by: chemiotropism 2007-08-24 16:51 Tag : all my child child view:2 |
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